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The Second is "the privilege of the husband, by law, to marry feveral wives." This, to the European women, feems a grievous oppreffion; and they hold thofe very cheap who fubmit to it. But, in But, in truth, the cause of this law and cuftom is the nature of the female fex themselves, which feparates them from the husband, the feveral laft months of pregnancy, and time of fuckling; and befides thefe, the Afiatic women have many other times for being feparate from their hufbands. This privilege not being allowed by the English law, is indeed a great hardship upon the English husbands; whereas the Afiatic law permitting polygamy, does the hufband juftice, and wrongs not the wife; for the honour of the firft and equal wife is not affected by it; thofe women who fubmit to marry with a married man, not being admitted into the fociety of ladies, as they are never of high or wealthy families, no man of honour ever allowing his daughter to make fuch a marriage. The mode in which these other wives live is this they who are of a genteel extraction, have a feparate houfe for themselves, like kept miftreffes in England; and they who are not, live in the house of the equal wife, like fervants, and the husband at times conveys himself to them in a clandeftine manner. Befides, these wives cannot invade any of the rights of the equal wife; for al though they and their children are by law equally entitled to inheritance, yet fince the equal wife never marries without a very large dowry - fettled upon her, all that the huf band leaves goes to the payment of this dowry, and nothing remains for his heirs. The opinion that the men of Afia have generally three or four wives, is very ill

founded, for in common they have only one; out of a thousand, there will be fifty perfons perhaps who have from one to two, and ten out of thefe who have more than two. The fear of the bad confequences of polygamy makes men fubmit with patience to the times of feparation from the equal wife, as much the better way; for, from what I know, it is eafier to live with two tigresses than two wives.

The third is," the power of di vorce being in the hands of the huf. band." This is ordained by law, but not practifed; for if a great of fence be the motive to divorce a wife, and if it be proved against her, the receives punishment by the order of the magiftrate, or from the husband, with the concurrence of all her relations; and if the offence be of a trivial nature, fuch as a dif. ference of temper and unfociability, the husband punishes her by leaving the female apartments and living in his own. But the reason for divorce being at the will of the husband, lies in the very justice of the law, and the diftinction of the male fex over the female, on account of the greater fhare they take in the management of the world; for all the laborious work falls to their lot, fuch as car. rying heavy burthens, going to war, repulfing enemies, &c. and the wo. men generally fpend their lives in repofe and quiet. Nevertheless, if the wife eftablishes a criminal of fence against the husband, fuch as an unfair distribution of his time among his wives, or a diminution of the neceffaries of life, fhe can obtain a divorce in fpite of him.

The fourth is, "the little credit the law attaches to the evidence of women in Afia;" for, in a court of juftice, every fact is proved by the teftimony of two men; but if women be the witneiles, four are

required,

required. This does not arife from the fuperiority of the one over the other, but it is founded upon the little experience and knowledge women poffefs, and the fickleness of their difpofitions.

The fifth is, the Afiatic women having to leave off going to balls and entertainments, and wearing fhowy dreffes and ornaments, after their husband's death." This is owing to their great affection for their husband's memory, and their own modes and habits; for there is nothing to prevent a woman's doing otherwife, or marrying a fecond husband, but the dread of expofing herself to the ridicule and cenfure of women of her own rank.

The fixth is, "the Afiatic daughters not having the liberty of choof ing their husbands." On this head nothing need be faid; for in Europe, this liberty is merely nominal, as without the will of the father and mother, the daughter's choice is of no avail; and whatever choice they make for her, fhe muft fubmit to; and in its effects, it ferves only to encourage running away (as the male and female flaves in India do), and to breed coldnefs and trouble amongst the members of a family. But granting that fuch a liberty does exist in England, the difgrace and mifery it must always entail is very evident. The choice of a girl juft come from the nursery, and defirous by nature to get a husband, in an affair on which the happiness of her whole life depends, can neither deferve that refpect nor confideration which is due to the choice of her parents, who have profited by experience, and are not blinded by paffion.

But what the Afiatic women have more than the European, both by law and custom, may be ranked under eight heads.

First, "Their power over the

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property and children of the huf-
band, by cuftom;" for the men of
Afia confider the principal objects
of marriage, after the procreation
of their fpecies, for the worship of
God, two things, the one to have
their money and effects taken care
of, and the other to have their chil-
dren brought up, fo that they them.
felves being left entirely difengaged
of thefe concerns, may turn their
whole endeavours to the attainment
of their various pursuits.
chief part, therefore, of whatever
wealth they acquire, they give in
charge to their wives, and thus the
women have it in their power to
annihilate in one day the products
of a whole life. Although this fel-
dom happens, yet it is often the
cafe, where the hufband having
amaffed a large fortune in youth and
power, has delivered it in charge
to his wife, and requires it back in
his old age and neceffity; fhe does
not allow him more than fufficient
for his daily fupport, and lays the
reft up in a place of fecurity for the
fake of her children. And fo great
is the power they poffefs, as to the
difpofal of their children, that fre-
quently they are brought up with-
out any education, or die in child-
hood; for the women, on account
of their little fenfe, are never pleaf-
ed to part with their children, by
fending them to fchool, and to ac-
quire experience by travelling; and
when they fall fick, they give them
improper medicines, by the advice
of their own confidants, or, from
their foftnefs of heart, indulge them
in whatever it is the nature of the
fick to take a longing for, and thus
they cause their death.

Second, "Their power, by cuf. tom, as to the marriage of their children, and choice of their religi ous faith;" for if the husband wishes to give one of them in marriage to a perfon the wife dif:pproves of, the

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match does not take place, but the other way it generally does. All the children, both male and female, from being moftly in the company of their mother, and looking upon her as their protector against their father, whom, on account of his wishing to have them educated, they confider their tormentor, follow the religious tenets of their mother, and remain perfect ftrangers to thofe of their father. It often happens, where the wife is a Schia, and the hufband a Souni, the children hav. ing been Schias from their own natural difpofition, and the inftruction of the mother, fpeak difre fpectfully of the chiefs of the Souni fect in their father's prefence; and he, who all his life never bore fuch language from any perfon, but was even ready to put the fpeaker of it to death, has no redrefs, but patiently fubmitting to hear it from them, as, on account of their want of understanding, they are excufeable; and thus, by frequent repetition, his attachment to his faith is shaken, and, in the courfe of time, he either entirely forfakes it, or remains but lukewarm in it.

Third, "Their authority over their fervants;" for the fervants of the male apartments, the keeping and changing of whom are in the hands of the hufband, through fear of expofing themselves to the difpleasure or complaints of the wife, when the finds a proper opportunity, by their committing fome fault, which fervants are continually doing, are more obedient to her than to their own master; and the fer vants of the zenana, whom the wife has the care of retaining or turning off, ftand fo much in awe of their mistrefs, that many of them pass their whole lives in the zenana, without ever once coming in. to the prefence of the hufband: fome of them never perform any

fervice for him at all, and others, who do, enter not into difcourfe with him; and the women are so obstinate in this refpect, their hufbands never can turn off one of these fer. vants, but his very complaint against them is a recommendation in their favour; and his recommendation has the effect of complaint, by fubjecting them to their mistreffes refentment. Contrary to this is the manner of the European ladies, who have not their own will with their children and fervants, but live more like free and familiar guests in their husband's houses; and the household establishment and equipage being in common to both, if any part, as the carriage for example, is previously employed by the one, the other has to wait till it is difengaged: of this there is no doubt, that if a quarrel enfues between an English husband and wife, the wife has to leave the houfe, and feek her dinner either at her father's or a friend's; whereas in Asia, it is the husband that has to go out; for frequently the utenfils of cookery are not kept in the male apartments.

Fourth, "The freedom, by cuftom, of the Afiatic women from affifting in the business of the hufband, or fervice of his guefts;" whereas this is generally the duty of European wives, whether their hufbands be of a genteel business, fuch as jewellery, mercery, or pet. fumery, or the more fervile ones; I have feen many rife from their dinner, to answer the demands of a purchaser and although all these duties are not required of the ladies, yet fome, especially the entertaining the guests, carving and helping the dishes at table, and making the tea and coffee, are generally performed by them. Now the Afiatic ladies have no fuch duties at all, but live in the manner before defcribed.

Fifth, "The greater deference

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the Afiatic ladies find paid to their humours, and a prefcriptive right of teazing their hutbands by every pretext," which is confidered as conftituting an effential quality of beauty; for if a wife does not put thefe in practice, but is fubmiffive to her husband's will in every thing, her charms very foon lofe their brilliancy in his eyes. Thus when a wife goes to vifit her father, the will not return to her husband, till he has come himself feveral times to fetch her, and being as often vexed by her breaking her promife; and every day when dinner is ferved, by pretending to be engaged at the time, fhe keeps her husband wait. ing, and does not come till the meat has grown cold, and in the fame manner at bed-time;-for return ing quickly from their father's houfe is confidered as a fign of fondness for the hufband, which in their opinion looks very ill; and coming foon to dinner they think betrays the difpofition of a hungry beggar. In thefe, and fuch like, the husband has nothing for it but patience; nay, it ever pleases him. I have known of many beautiful women, conftant in their affection, and obedient to their husbands night and day, whom, for not having thefe qualities, the hufbands have quickly tired of, and unjustly deferted, for the fake of plain women who poffeffed them.

Sixth, "The greater reliance placed by the Afiatic husbands on their wives virtue, both from law and cuftom." For, as to the European ladies, although they can go out of doors, and difcourfe with ftrangers, yet this is not allowed, unlefs they have a trufty perfon along with them, either of the hufband's or the father's; and fleeping out all night is abfolutely denied them, contrary to the way of the Afiatic ladies, who, when they go

to the houfe of a lady of their acquaintance, though their husbands be entire ftrangers, are not attended by any perfon of the husband's or father's, and they spend not only one or two nights in that house, but even a whole week; and in fuch a house, although the mafter is prohibited entering the apartments where they are, yet the young men of fifteen, belonging to the family or relations, under the name of children, have free accefs, and eat with and enter into the amufements of their guests.

Seventh, "Their fhare in the children, by law." For if a divorce happens, the fons go to the father, and the daughters to the mother, contrary to the custom here, where, if a divorce takes place, the mother, who for twenty years may have toiled and confumed herfeif in bringing up her children, has to abandon all to the father, and full of grief and affliction leave his houfe.

Eighth, "The ease, both by law and cuftom, with which the wife may feparate herself from her hus band, when there may be a quarrel between them, without producing a divorce." Thus the wife, in an hour's time after the difpute, fets off with the children and her property to the house of her father or relations, and until the husband makes her fatisfaction she does not return: and this fhe can always do without a moment's delay.

Befides thefe eight, as above noticed, of the fuperior advantages the Afiatic women enjoy over the European, there are many others here omitted for brevity's fake. What has been faid, is enough for people of difcernment. Farewell.

"I'll fondly place on either eye,
"The man that can to this reply.

Lendon.

POETRY.

LITERARY CHARACTERISTICS

OF

The most diftinguished MEMBERS of the ASIATIC SOCIETY.

BY JOHN COLLEGINS, ESQ.

BRITANNIA'S genius, eager to explore
The myftic mines of Afiatic lore,

With Imiles benign accomplish'd JoNEs addrefs'd,
And bid him trace the records of the Eaft.

He came the heavenly Gopia round him flew,
His prefence every fon of Learning drew:
Then first*, ye fcholars! met at his command,
The father of the literary band.

He came his prefence caft a blaze more bright,
Than emanations from the folar light!
For every art and every science known,
Were all concentred in himself alone!

But fee, too foon, his foul of meekness move,
To mix with feraphs in the realms above!
Whene'er with cenfers by his facred fhrine,
At rofy dawn I penfively recline,

Where the tall column towering to the skies,
Says, "Here the fage once animated lies,”
I think the zephyrs, murmuring as they blow,
Cry, "What a ftore of learning fleeps below!"
The world admires the wond'rous talents given
To this diftinguifh'd favourite of heaven;
For him in Eartham's academic bowers,
Poetic forrow tuneful Hayley pours;
And manly Maurice makes the tidings flow,
Thames! to thy nymphs in elegies of woe.
Ganga, for him, with drooping head appears,
For him ev'n holy Pundits + fhed their tears!
Crishna for him wail'd Matra's groves among,
And his romantic grot with cyprefs hung;
Alive! we prais'd the path fublime he trod ;-
Dead! Learning hails him as her demi-god!

On January 15, 1784, the Afiatic Society was inftituted. † See the Afiatic Researches, vol. 4, p. 183.

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