and in a spirit of meekness, humility, and condescen sion to their brethren, would not have a much surer and better effect than all their vain and empty babblings. Far be it from me, my friend, to discourage a truly religious conversation ;-but there is a meekness of wisdom, as the Scripture beautifully expresses it, that will modestly avail itself of every favourable opportunity, and with a becoming zeal exert itself in the cause of truth. They who best know themselves are certainly best acquainted with human nature. Such persons will ever be careful, in their conversation and deportment, to be wise as serpents, and harmless as doves; to become all things to all men; that is, to study the various prejudices and infirmities of men, and form their discourse and conduct in such a manner, as will not have any tendency to disgust or affront them; but on the other hand, by forbearance and gentleness, will win their hearts, and thus command their attention. Caspipini's Letters. A MOTHER'S ADVICE TO HER SON. My mother, when she was in tolerable spirits, was now frequently describing the kind of woman she wished me to marry. I am so firmly persuaded, Charles, she would kindly say, of the justness of your taste, and the rectitude of your principles, that I am not much afraid that you will be misled by the captivating exterior of any woman who is greatly deficient, either in sense, or conduct; but remember, my son, that there are many women against whose characters there lies nothing very objectionable, who are yet little calculated to taste, or to communicate rational happiness. Do not indulge romantic ideas of super-human excellence. Remember that the fairest creature, is a fallen creature. Yet, let not your standard be low. If it be absurd to expect perfection, it is not unreasonable to expect consistency. Do not suffer yourself to be caught by a shining quality, till you know it is not counteracted by the opposite defect. Be not taken in by strictness in one point, till you are assured there is no laxity in others. In character, as in architecture, proportion is beauty. The education of the present race of females is not very favourable to domestic happiness. For my own part, I call education, not that which smothers a woman with accomplishments, but that which tends to consolidate a firm and regular system of character; that which tends to form a friend, a companion, and a wife. I call education, not that which is made up of shreds and patches, of useless arts; but that which inculcates principles, polishes taste, regulates temper, cultivates reason, subdues the passions, directs the feelings, habituates to reflection, trains to self-denial, and more especially, that which refers all actions, feelings, sentiments, tastes and passions to the love, and fear of God. H. Moore. SICKNESS and suffering come with double force upon guilt; anguish of mind lessens the strength, as well as increases the smart: 'tis like a wound in the sword hand; the man is disabled in that which should defend him; he drops his guard, and his heart lies open to the next pass. To conclude, we ought to summon in all our force upon his occasion, and to fortify ourselves with recollection and good practice,―to animate our courage from the topics of honour and interest, from all the weighty considerations of this world and the next,-to take in the auxiliaries of religion, and implore the assistance of heaven, that pain may never force us to outlive our patience or our honesty,-that we may stand firm against the last assault, of what kind soever, and meet death with resolution, as it lies in the order of Providence; in short, that we may die without being conquered, carry a good conscience along with us, and leave an useful precedent behind us. Jeremy Collier. FEMALE CHARITY. WOMAN all exceeds In ardent sanctitude, in pious deeds, Ask him what accent sooths, what hand bestows, Barret. THE SECRET OF BEING ALWAYS EASY. AN Italian bishop, who had struggled through many difficulties without repining, and met with much opposition in the discharge of his episcopal functions, without betraying the least impatience, was one day asked by a friend, who highly admired those qualities which he thought it impossible to imitate, if he could communicate the secret of being always easy? "Most readily," answered the bishop, "it consists in nothing more than making a right use of my eyes." His friend begged him to explain himself. "In whatever situation I am, I remember that, looking up to heaven, my principal business here is to get there; I then look down upon the earth, and call to mind how small a space I shall occupy in it, when I come to be interred; I then look abroad into the world, and see how many there are, who are in all respects more unhappy than myself. Thus, I learn where true happiness is placed, where all our cares must end, and how very little reason I have to repine or to complain.' THE BETTER LAND. I hear thee speak of the better land, Is it where the feathery palm trees rise, "Not there, not there, my child." Is it far away, in some region old, Eye hath not seen it, my gentle boy, F |