UT do these worlds display their beams, or guide B Their orbs, we serve thy ay, to please thy pride? Thyself but dust, thy stature but a span, And the whole Ocean's confluent waters swell, R HOW poor, how rich, how abject, how august, How complicate, how wonderful, is Man! EADING maketh a full Man; Conference a ready and Writing an exact Man. Man; YONDEMN'D to sacrifice his childish years To pass the riper period of his age Navades a kindness, is not therefore kind: OT always actions show the Man; we find Perhaps Prosperity becalm'd his breast, Pride guides his steps, and bids him shun the great : His pride in reasoning, not in acting, lies. VAIN AIN glorious Man, when fluttering wind does blow The scorne of Knighthood and trew Chevalrye, And noble worth, to be advaunced hye, Such Praise is shame; but Honour, Vertue's mecd, A the Nature's law B Pleased with a rattle, tickled with a straw; Some livelier plaything gives his Youth delight, Scarfs, Garters, Gold amuse his riper stage; So greatest and most glorious thing on ground May often need the helpe of weaker hand; Man. Steele. MAN that is Temperate, Generous, Valiant, Chaste, Faithful, and Honest, may, at the same time, have Wit, Humour, Mirth, Good Breeding, and Gallantry. While he exerts these latter qualities, twenty occasions might be invented to show he is master of the other noble Virtues. Thus then to man the voice of Nature spake- Spread the thin oar, and catch the driving Gale. HOWEVER we do praise ourselves, Our Fancies are more Giddy and infirm, L ET business vex him, Avarice blind, Let Doubt and Knowledge rack his mind, Let Errour act, Opinion speak, And Want afflict, and Sickness break, HE is but the counterfeit of a Man, who hath not tho I of a Man. Be such a gostling to obey instinct; but stand, And knew no other kin. TAKE it for a rule, that the natural, and not the acquired man, is the companion. Learning, wit, gal lantry, and Good-breeding, are all but subordinate qualities in society, and are of no value, but as they are subservient to Benevolence, and tend to a certain manner of being or appearing equal to the rest of the Company. COM YOMPLAISANCE renders a Superior amiable, an Equal agreeable, and an Inferior acceptable. It smooths distinction, sweetens conversation, and makes every one in the company pleased with himself. It produces Good Nature and mutual benevolence, encourages the timorous, soothes the turbulent, humanises the fierce, and distinguishes a society of civilized persons from a confusion of savages. A Manners.- La Bruyère. MAN'S Worth is estimated in this world according to his conduct. THE HE true art of being agreeable, is to appear well pleased with all the Company, and rather to seem well entertained with them, than to bring entertainment to them. A man thus disposed, perhaps, may have not much Learning, nor any Wit; but if he has Common Sense and something friendly in his behaviour, it conciliates men's minds more than the brightest parts without this disposition: it is true indeed that we should not dissemble and flatter in company; but a man may be very agreeable, strictly consistent with Truth and Sincerity, by a prudent silence where he cannot concur, and a pleasing assent where he can. Now and then you meet with a person so exactly formed to please, that he will gain upon every one that hears or beholds him; this disposition is not merely the gift of Nature, but frequently the effect of much Knowledge of the world, and a com mand over the Passions. Manners. Shakespeare. THOSE that are Good Manners at the Court are as ridiculous in the Country, as the Behaviour of the Country is most mockable at the Court. I a man makes me keep my Distance, the comfort is, he keeps his at the same time. OU You will, I believe, in general, ingratiate yourself with others, still less by paying them too much Court than tro little. YOOD-BREEDING is the result of much Good Sense, sake of others, and with a view to obtain the same indulgence from them. A MAN'S own Good-breeding is the best security against other people's Ill-manners. Manners. · Addison. NE may now know a man that never conversed in O excess of Good-breeding. I polite country Esquire shall make you as many bows in half an hour, as would serve a Courtier for a week. There is infinitely more to do about place and precedency in a meeting of Justices' wives, than in an assembly of Duchesses. Manners. Cumberland. THE happy gift of being agreeable seems to consist not one, but in an assemblage of Talents, tending to communicate delight; and how many are there, who, by easy Manners, sweetness of Temper, and a variety of other undefinable qualities, possess the power of pleasing without any visible effort, without the aids of Wit, Wisdom, or Learning, nay, as it should seem, in their defiance; and this without appearing even to know that they possess it. Manners. Addison. Tthe world without Good-nature, or something which HERE is no society or conversation to be kept up in must bear its appearance, and supply its place. For this reason mankind have been forced to invent a kind of artificial humanity, which is what we express by the word Good-breeding. Manners. Addison. YOOD-BREEDING shows itself most, where to an Gordinary Eye it appears the least. Manners. South. HAVE known men, grossly injured in their affairs, injured in good Language, ruined in Caresses, and kissed while they were struck under the fifth Rib. |