On Desire: Why We Want What We WantOxford University Press, 1 нояб. 2005 г. - Всего страниц: 336 A married person falls deeply in love with someone else. A man of average income feels he cannot be truly happy unless he owns an expensive luxury car. A dieter has an irresistible craving for ice cream. Desires often come to us unbidden and unwanted, and they can have a dramatic impact, sometimes changing the course of our lives. In On Desire, William B. Irvine takes us on a wide-ranging tour of our impulses, wants, and needs, showing us where these feelings come from and how we can try to rein them in. Spicing his account with engaging observations by writers like Seneca, Tolstoy, and Freud, Irvine considers the teachings of Buddhists, Hindus, the Amish, Shakers, and Catholic saints, as well as those of ancient Greek and Roman and modern European philosophers. Irvine also looks at what modern science can tell us about desire--such as what happens in the brain when we desire something and how animals evolved particular desires--and he advances a new theory about how desire itself evolved. Irvine also suggests that at the same time that we gained the ability to desire, we were "programmed" to find some things more desirable than others. Irvine concludes that the best way to attain lasting happiness is not to change the world around us or our place in it, but to change ourselves. If we can convince ourselves to want what we already have, we can dramatically enhance our happiness. Brimming with wisdom and practical advice, On Desire offers a thoughtful approach to controlling unwanted passions and attaining a more meaningful life. |
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... feel more or less like an outline of that person—and then even the outline began to fade, erased by what had happened inside. I felt ... terrible accident or is sent away to prison. And yet, seen from outside, nothing happened to cause the ...
... feel more or less like an outline of that person—and then even the outline began to fade, erased by what had happened inside. I felt ... terrible accident or is sent away to prison. And yet, seen from outside, nothing happened to cause the ...
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... bad enough, but one can imagine more serious crises than these. Consider, for example, Russian author Leo Tolstoy's ... felt that what I had been standing on had collapsed and that I had nothing left under my feet. What I had lived on no ...
... bad enough, but one can imagine more serious crises than these. Consider, for example, Russian author Leo Tolstoy's ... felt that what I had been standing on had collapsed and that I had nothing left under my feet. What I had lived on no ...
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... felt something which, though not a wish, was a habit left by former wishes, in sober moments I knew this to be a ... depressed and did not experience mood swings. 28 The Secret Life of Desire.
... felt something which, though not a wish, was a habit left by former wishes, in sober moments I knew this to be a ... depressed and did not experience mood swings. 28 The Secret Life of Desire.
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... depressed. Doctors witnessed the episode, videotaped the change in her expressions, and recorded her utterances: “I ... feelings were genuine and sincere. The woman had simply lost the will to live. It had vanished in a matter of minutes, ...
... depressed. Doctors witnessed the episode, videotaped the change in her expressions, and recorded her utterances: “I ... feelings were genuine and sincere. The woman had simply lost the will to live. It had vanished in a matter of minutes, ...
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... bad as the haircut you got last Christmas.” The feedback can also be nonverbal. A spouse's facial reaction on seeing ... feelings. Although friends, relatives, and lovers are all important sources of feedback, we also pay attention to ...
... bad as the haircut you got last Christmas.” The feedback can also be nonverbal. A spouse's facial reaction on seeing ... feelings. Although friends, relatives, and lovers are all important sources of feedback, we also pay attention to ...
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